Seasons of the Heart

Seasons of the heart

Dear Seamus,

Life is about change, constant and consistent change. In fact it’s the one thing you can be certain of. If you look to nature you will see that there is a natural ebb and flow. The most obvious example is the four seasons. Without fail year in and year out we will experience spring, summer, autumn and winter. Each season has a distinction to it and it feels and looks very different. An Italian named Antonio Vivaldi composed a set of four violin concertos in the early eighteenth century called The Four Seasons. Each piece beautifully captures the essence of each season and it is one of my favourite classical pieces of music.

You were a spring baby and you embodied everything about the season; new life, hope and renewal. The gardens at the hospital where you were born, were covered in flowers and vibrant leafy trees and bushes. The diagnosis coming hand in hand with your arrival was the ultimate opportunity for rebirth. I said goodbye to my old way of life and embraced you, my longed for boy. I blossomed as a first time Mother after being a closed bud for so long.

Before too long the season had shifted to summer and we were positioning your bassinet in front of the old water cooler at home. The days seemed endlessly long and hot. I would give you your bottle in the cool darkness when you cried out for your 4am feed. Then when you were finished I would hold you near the window to hear the birdsong and watch the colours change in the sky as the sun came up. Just when we thought we couldn’t take one more 43c day, things shifted again and the leaves began to change colour. Autumn had arrived.

The leaves fell and sprinkled the lawn and the street. The wind seemed to pick up and it blew away the memories of my tiny newborn. A chubby baby had taken his place. You had just started to discover your voice and your adoration of trees. Your Daddy and I would park your pram under the peppercorn tree and watch as you squealed in delight. The more the wind rustled the leaves and branches, the more you kicked your legs and flapped your arms. There is no doubt in my mind that you and that tree were having a conversation.

Before we knew it the days became shorter and shorter. Looking out the kitchen window to the foggy mornings reminded me of my time in London. I loved to brave the cold of January and walk to St. James’s Park. The trees always looked so eerie with their bare branches outlined darkly in the heavy mist. At home in rural New South Wales I complain of feeling cold and your Father complains about the extra blankets I am putting on our bed. Socks and slippers do not seem to want to stay on you so I am forever grabbing your cold little feet to re-dress you. Because we spend a lot of time indoors and out of the cold air, you amuse yourself with the pots and pans and the garbage bins. I bid farewell to your stillness and welcome the curious explorer.
You are hurtling through seasons of change in your first year of life. So much has reformed already and you are only 9 months old.

Throughout your life you will weather emotional storms along with the rumbling thunder and lightning that streaks the sky during summer. There will be moments when you are shedding your skin and withdrawing with the leaves of autumn. At times you will feel that your inner landscape is barren like the frozen fields in winter. You will evolve and grow and burst forth like the flowers blooming in the spring.

You are flowing with the seasons, in fact you are part of them and they are part of you. In my forty years I have seen many seasons on the exterior and the interior. They are all part of the grand vision that is the divine. I am learning with age and experience to allow those seasons, to move with them. Sometimes I am better at it than other times. Personally, I love the spring. In the heart of springtime you were born and internally I favour the spring climate in which my awareness flourishes.

However, all seasons are required and all are beautiful in their own unique way. Our growth comes through the seasons we experience at the centre of our being. Embrace them all Seamus, for the seasons of your heart will nurture the beautiful garden of your true self.

“And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy; And you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields”Kahlil Gibran

To listen to Vivaldi’s “Spring” from The Four Seasons, click here:


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Melanie Rose Killick

Melanie Rose Killick writes to her baby son Seamus about life, death and the amazing gift of cancer.

2 thoughts on “Seasons of the Heart”

    1. Feeling very well thankyou! Seamus keeps me busy but I am lucky to have such strong family support which allows me to keep making my health a priority. Sending love and wishes of wellness to you Marcy xx

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